Betty and Carlin's blog

How Are We Really Having Sex?

Fri, 10/08/2010 - 09:42
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

Indiana University released their national sex survey - we had to review their findings. It seems that the clitoris still reigns supreme.

You Gave Me the Courage to Start Loving My Body

Mon, 11/22/2010 - 17:13
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

Dear Betty & Carlin,

This is more of a "THANK YOU" rather than a question. I stumbled across your website about a month ago and I am ever so grateful that I did. Your website has been incredibly helpful and has given me the courage to finally start loving my body and to give myself permission to take time to pleasure myself and give myself orgasms.

Best Body Appreciation Comments

Sun, 10/17/2010 - 10:15
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

Some comments from our latest youtube video:

rose1998 That's hard to say. I like...virtually..nothing. About my body. Oh wait, I like my calves. Yeah I think I got some sexy calves hahaha.

EllaKathryn I like my feet, hands and wrists. I just think they are nice and small. Of course it sucks when I have to buy socks in the children's department and gloves don't fit.. haha!

mizztcasa1 love u guys! I so agree with Betty - "I want to want myself" and right now I don't because of my unhealthy, no a**, apple body. I wish I had a curvy body with a nice behind. I do appreciate my boobs though. Thanks for the video!

Our Favorite Stories in Betty's Memoir

Fri, 10/01/2010 - 19:00
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

Today, we received the print copies of Betty Dodson: My Sexual Revolution. We decided to talk about our favorites stories from Betty's life.

She's the queen.  Order Your Copy Today

Betty & Carlin Go Naked for No Make-up Week

Fri, 09/24/2010 - 18:08
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

Rachel Rabbit Write contacted us about No Make-Up Week & we agreed to do our podcast sans make-up. We believe women wearing make-up is a reflection of how they feel about themselves. And we love ourselves.

I've Never Had an Orgasm

Fri, 09/17/2010 - 18:29
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

We've been getting this question from the teens and 20 set - it's about blocking childhood masturbation.

Masturbation is the foundation for all human sexuality. And we're not stopping until everyone can have independent orgasms.

He Loses His Erection Waiting for My Orgasm

Fri, 09/10/2010 - 16:42
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

Timing your orgasm so "she comes first" is like trying to have simultaneous orgasms. When erections are lost, bust out the sex toys.

Our Sexual Labors to Liberate Women While Loving Men

Fri, 09/03/2010 - 18:50
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

We're pro-woman - not anti-man. It's about desire not need. And we think that's healthy.

Move Over Tension Orgasms I'm Riding the Wave

Mon, 08/30/2010 - 08:11
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

thanks guys! I'm 23 (live in scotland) and have always found it easy to orgasm but they are always quite short (I found out i have been having 'tension orgasms'). I can have a lot of them in a row but i was looking for something more fulfilling.

I watched loads of your podcasts on youtube and you said to relax, then ride the wave... holy shit! It was amazing! I was smiling loads as I was building up to the second orgasm. this was about ten, minutes ago - I just had to tell you right away. I'm going to keep up new technique, its great. I can't wait to show my boyfriend, he will totally get off on it!

thanks again, keep up the good work!

If I Enjoy Anal Play, Am I Gay?

Fri, 08/27/2010 - 17:00
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

Orientation isn't about which sex acts you enjoy. Prostate stimulation: try it you'll like it!

Why Does My Clit Go Numb?

Tue, 08/24/2010 - 17:20
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

You asked...we answered.

My Clit Tickles & Nothing Happens

Fri, 08/13/2010 - 09:15
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

We get this question all the time - here's Betty's answer.

Women Going Gay

Thu, 08/05/2010 - 11:54
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

Women going gay later in life has been a hot topic in the media these days.....of course, we had to add our 2 cents.


Betty & Carlin's Preference for Vaginal Penetration

Fri, 07/30/2010 - 17:03
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

I finally got Betty to talk about her private sessions. Turns out most women like the steady drummer.

How Did Betty & Carlin Meet...Are They Having Sex?

Mon, 07/26/2010 - 15:27
Submitted by Betty and Carlin


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