Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

Better Orgasms. Better World.

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We know how to have sex for procreation but we don't know how to have sex for pleasure.  Betty bottom lined S&M, we came up with the idea of sex badges & we planned out our sexual practice documentary. 

It was a big week - I came out about my sexual past with Marie Claire and posed for a evocative photoshoot.  Betty's response, "now I know how my mother felt".  

It was my sexual "coming out".  I'm so glad I did it.

Sarah Patterson from babeland and mysexprofessor.com came by and we talked about the top sex questions we get on the site: am I normal, am I having an orgasm and how can I orgasm during partner sex.   We also talked about our favorite lubes, the porn pop off and how Betty found her g-spot.

Youtube took down one of our videos and we had to vent, cracked ourselves up, and vented some more.  We're not porn stars...we're not prostitutes...we're not traditional women.  So it looks like we're going to have to do things "tits to the wall". 

And what could be better than "lesbian twat juice?" That statement came from an anonymous viewer on You Tube that I'd call a chicken shit for remaining anonymous. At least we have the guts to say who we are!!!!

Betty is the mother of masturbation - Deborah Sundahl is the mother of female ejaculation.  Betty and Deborah go way back to the feminist movement.  Deborah described her first experience ejaculating - and we talked about her latest area of interest: chronic pelvic floor tension.  It's my favorite podcast to date.

Deborah Sundahl Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot
Tammi Kent The Wild Feminine

We needed to "flesh" out the group orgasm ritual so we broke out the microphones.  It's really all about social bonding between women.  Getting past modesty and genital shame - being comfortable in our own skin "titty to titty, pussy to pussy".  Ultimately, it's feminism.

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Nancy Qualls- Corbet The Sacred Prostitute (great resource on sacred sexuality)

There's nothing abnormal about childbirth.  It's like an orgasm - your body knows what to do.  Jessica came by and we talked about birthing tubs and orgasmic birth...why you shouldn't cut the umbilical cord night away, why nursing is so important, and why you should avoid epidurals.

Resources:

Jessica's website

Ina Mae Gaskin

Joan Price - author of Naked at Our Age - stopped by and we turned on the microphones.  Betty wrote the forward and we can't say enough wonderful things about this book. 

Sex changes as you age but sex is life long (what Joan calls "ageless sexuality").  And, as women, we can look forward to "menopausal zest".  Joan met the love of her life when she was 57....a time when you can break all the rules and discover your sexual fluidity. 

Naked at Our Age
Joanprice.com
Joan's blog

Joan is a gem.

Barbara calls herself an orgasm expansionist - we sat down to talk about thinking off (remember that Strange Sex episode) - and how you can have energy and breath orgasms. 

There are an infinite number of erotic possibilities.  It's about breathing, squeezing your pc muscles, rocking your pelvis, using your imagination and making sound.

barbaracarrellas.com
urbantantra.org

We finally had a minute to sit down and talk about the bodysex documentary.  All the women experienced a transformation. The nudity...the group orgasm were a big healing for the cast and the crew.  Women must claim their sexual power.