Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
All names have been altered to protect your privacy.
Hi Dr,
My problem is that i ejaculate within 5 minutes while having intercourse. Is there any method to increase time or to have control on ejaculate?
I'm watching porn and rubbing my my dick when i am about to ejaculate I just remove my hand. I do it for about 2 hours daily.
Dear T,
Dear Betty,
I am a pre-op transexual woman. Im 58 and 9 months into my HRT and Real Life Experience. I will go for reassighnment surgery as soon as requirments are met.
I always had a healthy libido as a male but under a feminizing regime of hormones it becomes suppressed by anti androgens to allow the estrogen to work its magic. Although this results in not being very horny I've found I could still become aroused by fantasizing and could eventually orgasm. But they were very lacluster . But a few times now I have had a couple of intense orgasms and they were different in that they peaked and seemed to hang in there for a minute or so....wonderful. I'm told this may be my female libido coming on line is this so?
Dear Betty,
Is it wrong that i am a male but i realy want to lactate? I am 34 and never had a any thoughts like this before. But i was reading a book that had strange but true tales in it. There was a story about a man who helpped with breast feeding in his tribe. I never thought a man could lactat. So i did some looking and found men can. Now it is in my mind and is all i can think off. So is this normal.. is this right? i am unsure.
Dear B,
Dear Betty,
I am a 19 year old woman. The first time I had sex with a partner was a little over a year ago but I have been sexually active for as long as I can remember.
When I was about 16 I started penetrating myself with the end of my hairbrush and when I got close to cumming I started hearing sloshing sounds and feeling bursts of wetness spill over my hands. I was scared but I didn't stop because it felt so good. I was left with a puddle about a foot in diameter on my bed and moisture all up the back of my t-shirt. I was horrified that I had urinated all over myself but it didn't smell like anything at all and didn't leave a stain. After that I masturbated with a towel on the floor.
Dear Betty,
My fiance loves to be stimulated but as her orgasm is about to hit she makes me stop. she says the pleasure is too intense. she also has a hard time relaxing and intercourse is sometimes painful due to tightness. what should we do so she can enjoy herself and relax to ease the pain she wants kids but i find it hard to function if i know she is in pain.
Dear S,
Chances are good she has just had a small come, but due to porn and Hollywood, she was unable to recognize what happened. When the clitoris fires off an orgasm, for a few moments (give or take) it is too sensitive to respond to any more stimulation. I'm enclosing a link that covers this.
Hi Betty,
I am a 25 y.o. man who likes women over 50. Until now I have never been able to approach a woman of that age group. I believe that the fantasy came because of several attractive teachers I had in this age group, especially when I came to fetichize grey hair.
I do not know where and how to find them, and also sex with most normal women leaves me wanting and often I am thinking of their moms while fucking them. I am confused whether I should try to rid myself of these desires or try to find such women.
Dear J,
Hi Betty,
I have never experienced an orgasm during sex, or through masturbation using only my hand. However, I have had tonsss of orgasms using a vibrator on my clitoris for a long time...since age 9 probably. So this served as my first and only orgasm experience...
I'm 20 now, and I have never been able to reach orgasm without it....what can I do?
Dear C,
Dear Betty,
I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend when she is very musky. I find it very erotic and exciting. If she has been to the gym, hasn't showered for a day, or especially the day after intercourse are the most exciting for me. The extremely musky scent and tangy taste drives me wild. She likes it too but is concerned that there might be a health risk from not washing.
We have been in a monogomous relationship for years so STD's aren't a concern. She just wants to know if there is any other health risk involved. We also wonder if it is strange that I enjoy performing oral sex after intercourse, I love the taste of us mixed together.
Dear P
Hi Dr. Betty,
I've been with my SO for almost 5 years. I was always used to having sex and it being fun but not getting real 'pleasure' out of it. Then we got pregnant and I was my normal nyphmo sex goddess, and I started being able to have vaginal orgasms and multiple vaginal orgasms at that.
Dear Betty,
I am a 20-year-old female and I have been having sex with an 18-year-old male for about 5 months. Today I asked him if he thought my vagina was loose or tight. I know, wrong question to ask, right? Just opening a can of worms... He told me that I felt loose, except for when I purposefully tense up my vaginal muscles. He told me that he had "wiggle room" inside of me and that I felt "flexible."
Hearing my boyfriend tell me plainly that I felt loose was very upsetting for me. He's a great guy with very limited sexual experience- no porn (fortunately), and no experience masturbating (unfortunately). It's like I'm having sex with a completely blank canvas, which is great because I get to educate him on female sexuality.