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Will I Ever Pop My Cherry?

Tue, 06/14/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a situation I hope you can provide some feedback on. I will be turning 21 here within the month and have never been in any serious relationships nor have I had sex. My dating life is abysmal - I have gone out on dates a few times with several guys throughout the past 5 years but have never actually dated a guy or have become involved with someone. It's very embarrassing to admit this to friends, family, potential boyfriends, etc so I just kinda sidestep the questions.

I have been doing a lot of soul searching lately and I know:

1. I am not gay - I am very attracted to men and though women are beautiful creatures, there is something about a man that hits all the right buttons

Stunted Sexually But Now On My Way

Fri, 04/22/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I am a single female in my late 30's. I consider myself a novice sexually, having only had 2 lovers (both male) in my very recent past. I recall my first conscious orgasm at about 15. It is a very vivid and happy memory. I recall having watched a very romantic, probably PG movie. The scene that stuck in my mind was a couple whispering to one another in a dimly lit bedroom. The scene faded to the sunset outside the window.

Can I Get a STD from Nipple Penis Contact?

Sun, 04/17/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr Betty,

I am finishing my last year of university and, due to study costs, have started working in a "rub and tug" massage parlour where I apply myself in oil, massaging and sliding over a male's body before performing hand relief.

I Heart My Hitachi Magic Wand

Tue, 04/05/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dearest Betty,

Thank you so much for helping me find the magic wand. I ordered two, as they are one of the most important things in my life. They are being used usually twice a day as I do love my 78 year-old self.

Bathroom Faucet Masturbation Unleashed My Sexuality

Wed, 03/16/2005 - 00:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I just wanted to tell you how wonderful your site is and that I can't wait for it to come out on the 1st and 15th of every month. I start getting antsy when I know the date is getting close when I get to read more of the storys that your fans write and your expert opinion. I have to admit that some of the stories turn me on, so I usually have my magic wand in hand while I read a long. And after thinking about it for a while I bet there is more than just myself out there who like to play with their pussy's and cocks while reading others experiences. Sooo why not add mine.

I'm A Shameless Nudist Masturbator

Tue, 06/15/2004 - 23:00
Submitted by Anonymous

Hi Betty -

I just wanted to quickly thank you for being the "Championess" of Masturbation and Masturbators like myself. It's wonderful that you supply a candid, tasteful honest resource for those who are perhaps new to the idea of masturbating, and are perhaps a little concerned that they might be weird or something, and need re-assurance that it's Ok, natural, normal and healthy to want to do youself.

I'm a completely shameless, insatiable masturbator, I never pass up an opportunity to enjoy myself. Since I'm also a nudist, I'm doubly fortunate that anytime I become aroused, I can just take matters into my own hands, and enjoy myself without the bother of having to undress. I know of almost nothing that feels as good as rubbing my cock in the sunshine.

Can't Come With a Partner :(

Thu, 05/13/2004 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty:

I'm an 18 year-old girl, and have had my sexual experiences, but throughout my sex life, I have NEVER had an orgasm. I have faked them more times than I can count, but have never really had one with a man. I masturbate quite often as I find it the only way to have an orgasm. I just don't get it; I can have one by myself, but never with my boyfriend. Is there something wrong with me?? Will I ever be able to have an orgasm with a man?? Please write back with suggestions etc.

Masturbated Together & Now Sex Better

Tue, 05/11/2004 - 23:00
Submitted by Anonymous

Dear Betty:

I've just finished rereading Sex for One for at least the fouth time while indulging in a wonderful, prolonged masturbation session. Bless you for the pleasure you've helped to create for men and women everywhere!

I love to write erotica for Jeri, my wife and Stuart and Nancy, our new friends and lovers. Some of my best work is done in between intense "build-up sessions" and the glorious orgasmic finish. I love to "peak" my hormones.

Can a Guy Tell You're a Virgin?

Fri, 07/04/2003 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi there Dr. Betty,

I'm in my mid 20's & for various reasons I'm still a virgin. This may sound like a stupid question but would a guy be able to tell I was a virgin when I have sex for the first time? Would it be obvious or am I better off telling him - being a virgin in your mid 20's makes you seem a bit like an anti social freak.

Thanks, D

Dear D,

First Orgasm at 36!

Wed, 05/21/2003 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I am a 36-year-old straight woman who wrote you a couple of days ago asking how to a make private session appointment. Due to a recent affair and being abstinent for most of my life, I became extremely aware of how uncomfortable I am with myself sexually, and the fact that I have never felt that I have had an orgasm bothered me immensely.