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Your DVD Gave Me First Orgasm!

Betty Dodson's picture
Tue, 07/18/2006 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I'm 47 years old and had my first orgasm with a vibrator about a month ago after watching and learning from your videotape Celebrating Orgasm. I can't thank you enough for what you have done for me. This has been a life long problem that has been like a heavy weight on my shoulders. The orgasms I have now are extremely intense and pleasurable. I just had no idea that this is what it would feel like. Also, thanks to learning from your video, I was able to have three orgasms in one session by continuing the stimulation.

Jealous of My Husband's Porn. HELP!

Betty Dodson's picture
Wed, 05/10/2006 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I recently found out that my husband has been using porn sites quite extensively. These sites appear to be about hooking up with sexually likeminded people, and his "profiles" state explicitly that he is looking for someone. I spoke to him about this, and he assures me that it is only fantasy, and that I shouldn't over analyze it.

Thank You For Your Wonderful Books

Betty Dodson's picture
Sat, 04/29/2006 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

Thank you for your courage in speaking out for women and sex education. It is a subject nobody wants to talk about, but is so badly needed. Your books, videos, and products have greatly changed my life.

I am a woman, 49 years old, married 26 years, and believed sex WAS intercourse. I always felt something was missing but didn't know what. I didn't masturbate and didn't have orgasms. I didn't know what a clitoris was or what to do with it. My husband didn't have a clue as to why I didn't enjoy sex.

How Do I Use My Fingers To Masturbate

Betty Dodson's picture
Sun, 04/16/2006 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

You've been a great inspiration to me and I felt you'd be the best person to turn to for advice about my masturbation dilemma. Here is my story:

My Pussy Is Too Tight!

Betty Dodson's picture
Sat, 04/15/2006 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

I'm a 21 year old who has never had sex. It's not that I haven't tried. But my vagina is so tight that my boyfriend can't penetrate me. I first tried having sex when I was 17 with my boyfriend at that time. We were both inexperienced and after trying various positions, we finally gave up because I was starting to get sore.

Now, I have a different boyfriend, and we have the same problem once again. My current boyfriend has had sex before so I realize that it's me and my tight vagina that's preventing us from having any intercourse. Once again, we tried various positions, but it hurt a lot and I even bled a little. What is wrong with me? And what can I do to make my vagina not so tight?

J

Dear J,

Love Sucking Myself Off!

Betty Dodson's picture
Fri, 04/14/2006 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

I stumbled over your web site today and am amazed. I thought I was the only one to hold the secret to self-love and heart pounding male masturbation. This is the biggest breath of fresh air I've ever discovered. So, Betty, I sending my everlasting gratitude.

Here are some of my personal experiences. First, I didn't sleep around with all the loose girls in high school. Not that I am bad looking, no. I am quite handsome and was the "catch" of my senior year class. A high achiever and a brain in school, college courses came easily to me. But what came even more easy to me was getting naked after school and work and indulging in loving the beautiful body the Maker gave me.

Girlfriend Can't Orgasm

Betty Dodson's picture
Thu, 04/13/2006 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

I am a 66 year old male and in very good health. My problem is that for the last few years I have suffered from impotency. My wife and I have not had sexual relations in over 7 years and I had just about given up hope of ever being able to perform again.

I recently met a lady my age who is also married. We have been seeing each other for several months and both enjoy making love. I generally satisfy her orally and then masturbate to reach a climax. I have tried viagra but with virtually no results.

Shouldn't It Be "The Vulva Monologues"?

Tue, 04/11/2006 - 23:00
Submitted by Anonymous

Hello Dr. Betty,

First of all, I apologize for taking up your time with what must be a frustratingly common type of query for you. My name is Carla and I am finishing up my Masters at the University of Cape Town, South Africa.

I have had some problems finding out the facts behind the politics of your "Bodysex Workshop's" complex inclusion in the "Vagina Monologues" (which is, I believe, still in performance, despite your reservations).

How Do I Get My Catholic Girlfriend to Masturbate?

Betty Dodson's picture
Sun, 03/12/2006 - 00:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I asked you for advice after your lecture. My roommate, a 28 y.o. Catholic virgin said that masturbation was a sin that she did not practice. You told me you cannot force anyone to do something she does not want to do. But then, you offered up some Great Wisdom! You told me to get some of my girlfriends to come over to our apartment when my roommate was there and talk about what great orgasms we were having with ourselves.

Can't Orgasm with Boyfriend

Betty Dodson's picture
Mon, 07/25/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I have enjoyed reading various articles on your web site and thought I could get a bit of help from you. I am 40 years old and have never had an orgasm during sex with my boyfriend ( I should tell you that I had sex for the first time about a year ago)-and I'm not sure what I can do about it.

I use a vibrator regularly and have for about 15 years, and this seems to be the only way that I am ever going to have an orgasm. I read in one of your other articles about an herbal based cream that would be similar to testosterone that may help with my lack of sexual desire and was wondering if you have any more information regarding this. I'd really appreciate your insight.