Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

Better Orgasms. Better World.

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This is my second submission to the gallery, and I thought I'd actually answer Betty's questions for this one...

My other submissions can be found at:
http://dodsonandross.com/art/cowrie-shell
http://dodsonandross.com/art/artsy-vulva

• How do you feel about the general appearance of your vulva:
  its form, shape, and color; the size of your clitoris, your inner and
  outer lips?
  I love that my outer lips are puffy and that they cover everything inside. Nothing hangs out or gets rubbed in clothing. I go w/out underwear all the time. I am so glad I have smaller inner lips than outer lips, b/c I don't like the look of it at all when the inner lips are exposed or there are no outer lips. Everything about my cunt inside looks pretty and dainty. Everything is perfectly symmetrical. I refer to the way my vulva looks in the open position as "textbook" in appearance, because it looks so similar to the drawings/representations you see in health/sex ed class textbooks of a vulva. What I am not as pleased about is the layer of fat on my mons pubis, which i think is too much. I've even considered liposuction to remove it.
• Do you talk to your cunt? Does she have a pet name? Does she have ideas of her own?
  Um... that just seems odd to me. It's not a she. Weird.
• How does she like to be touched, lubricated, penetrated?
  I have never used lube in my life. I produce ENOUGH of my own. It seems unnatural to use it. I'm glad that I've never had to. I can be fingered to orgasm one after another until my clit just can't handle it anymore, that's usually when I want to be penetrated, and I can cum vaginally too. It's great.
• Do you wear your pubic hair natural, trimmed, or shaved?
  When I'm dating someone, I do what they prefer up top on the mons, but I always shave all the hair off the lips. I have very sensitive skin, so when I shave it all off, I almost always get razor burn and ingrown hairs. I really want to try waxing it all off or a brazilian wax, but I haven't ever had the nerve to do it yet.
• What is your favorite method of masturbation? Do you use any kind of porn?
  I do not masturbate. I've tried endless times. But I'm not really all about the orgasm. I'm much more about the intimacy and connection with a partner. Orgasms for me are cerebral. I can't have them unless I have a connection with someone else. I have no desire to get myself off.
• How and when did you have your first orgasm?
  I'm pretty sure it was with the partner before my last partner. I was 29. I thought I was having them before, with other partners before that, but it really wasn't. Had it from oral sex.
• Have you ever shared masturbation with another person? Where and when?
  I've watched my partners masturbate. It's a huge turn-on for me. And I prefer to watch a new partner get himself off before I even attempt to, so that I have an idea of how they like to be touched. I've never masturbated for anyone, because I don't masturbate at all.
• Do you like to masturbate alone, with a partner, or in a group situation?
  I'd rather my partner touch me and get me off. I have no desire to touch myself, never have.
• What kind of fantasies do you have?
  I have bondage fantasies and rape fanstasies. I'm submissive sexually, so those are pretty arousing to me.
• What do you like best about the orgasms you have with yourself?
  The only time I have orgasms "with myself" would be meaning when I'm alone but having phone sex... I have cum from hearing him masturbate and cum but not touching myself. Just imagining it and hearing it gets me off.